John,
Firstly, I don't think it's any big deal to post an eBay item number or the seller's name. Anyone who uses eBay can find it in a hurry based on limited information - it took me no time to track this one down.
I've dealt with this particular seller before, and received nothing short of stellar service from him. He even threw in an extra NOS air cleaner decal for me at no charge. John, I see you have posted some positive feedback for him very recently as well.
Considering the extensive and nearly flawless feedback histories of both the seller and winning bidder, it seems highly doubtful that any malicious activity is going on here. Perhaps he has more than one set of these, and would rather sell to you directly instead of going through the eBay listing process (and fees) again.
We can only speculate on that, but at any rate, here's what I would do in your situation. Accept the second chance offer, but state that you are only willing to pay $62.00. This is what you WOULD have paid if not for the participation of the winning bidder. If that isn't acceptable to him, then he can put it on eBay and leave it to chance.
Another tactic to try is sniping (last minute bidding). Some don't think this is fair or ethical, but the auction isn't over until the last second ticks off the clock. This is the ONLY way I bid on eBay. This doesn't allow shillers (or any other bidders, for that matter, except fellow snipers) any time to spring into action.
I've scored some great deals this way, but at times have also lost out to other snipers with slightly deeper pockets than I. That's how it is sometimes.
Dean Reitan Calgary, AB, Canada 1972 Matador 2-door, 304 ----- Here's an interesting coincidence. Some of you will recall that I am searching for Barcelona medallions for my '78 Coupe. I was notified by several attentive listers of a lot that was on eBay. I subsequently bid on this lot. With four hours to go I was the sole bidder at the opening bid price.
I watched the item for a while, then another bid was placed. This was followed by two more bids from another bidder, neither of which beat the second bidder. By now, a considerable amount of money was on the table. At this point, with about 10 minutes to go, I made a (in my opinion) very high bid - which failed to win. I let the item go as I was not going to pay for three items when I needed only two of them - particularly as I considered the price too high.
Just now - some 4 hours after the sale, I've been offered a "Second Chance" at my too-high bid.
I'm not going to suggest that a shill was working on this but I have my suspicions. The high bidder appears to be a dealer in old car bits as is the seller.
I'd like the opinions of the list. Note that I have purposely not identified the seller, or the lot number - and don't wish to bring that information forward to the list in view of the legality of such a revelation.
John
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